How Instagram selfies can affect relationships
Taking selfie is enjoyable but sometimes it creates major problems. It may damage your relationship. You would not expect in what ways Instagram selfies can affect relationships.
Posting positive body image can be healthy and in the most situations it would be acceptable, but Instagram shared selfies can be a direct test of the boundaries of what is and what is not acceptable in a relationship.
Every relationship is special and you can not know from the previous experience how much selfies is too much, and there is a possibility this can ruin your relationship.
Many types of research have been done on this topic and we can say that the more person shows her or his satisfaction of their body image by posting selfies on Instagram, it makes more tension in their relationships.
This conflicts can be avoided if you talk to your partner openly. Discuss the boundaries, listen to each other, talk about what should be kept private and what things you both feel comfortable with to be posted on Instagram. Most of the time conflict are because couples are not honest and they avoid talking to each other. This usually happened at the beginning of the relationships when the card is still not on the table, and when each partner is still testing the other one.
If you are in a relationship and you know your partner is jealous, you should assume he or she would not be comfortable on your selfie beeing commented by people that you may or many not know. Although this strengthens your confidence and your self-esteem, you should not do it.
Once you put your Instagram fans, you have less risk, at least when we talk about romantic relationships.
And while we are on the subject, we must say that not all the selfies are the same. It is not the same if you make a selfie where you are cheerful and happy on a ski run, or you post a selfie from the beach in your tiny bathing suit.
Sometimes it can look like a selfies subjects are starring in their own reality show. Allowing people to see their privacy that much that they make selfies in their bedroom, or mirror selfies after they took a bath, can have a serious impact not only on your relationship but also to your life.
We can say that persons like this have excessive narcissism, and it has a big impact on their relationships, marriage, parenting, and even workplace.
But, it is not all black. If a couple is compatible and they share the same passion, if they are in love, they can use everything to their benefit. Instagram selfies can also be a way for couples to make a connection. If both partners are on the same page, they can use Instagram to post their adventures, vacation photos, photos of interesting things they do together…This can make a positive impact on their relationship where they can express themselves as an individuals, but like part of a couple.
In the end, it is all about the message you want to send and the statement you want to make. And it is all about people making a post and their confidence.
Make selfies, enjoy, but keep your dignity and be sure of yourself in everything you do. Selfies can be a fun thing to do, so do not let bad judgment affect your relationships and your life.